Good point ..our regular has poster sized pics with blurred faces of 11 of the 14 couples he’s been with in his life ..and when he presented it to us , he told us the black couple he fucked for a couple years was his favorite couple as a trophy
We have one friend who knows ..she helped wife get over the hesitation of getting into lifestyle and referred us to our current regular ..otherwise no one …almost once got busted at our shore house by one of the kids ..but we try carefully to keep worlds from colliding
I don’t think it makes you bi , it makes you submissive (whether it’s to your wife , the bull or both)…the arousal comes from the act of submission and not the physical act itself